For many couples adding chastity to their dynamic, writing up a chastity contract is a natural first step. The contract outlines the rules by which the couple or group will abide during the period of chastity.
A typical chastity contract outlines the length of time the male will remain locked and the rules which the keyholder has set for him, along with their accompanying punishments and/or rewards. Many contracts additionally outline the duties of the keyholder – for example, it is usually the keyholder’s responsibility to ensure that the cock cage is removed for cleaning at regular intervals.
Other topics that a chastity contract might cover include: situations in which the cage may be removed (doctor’s appointments, air travel, business trips), types of punishment which the caged partner has agreed to undergo for breaking rules, and both the caged partner and keyholder’s hard limits.
If the contract is drawn up between a caged individual and a professional keyholder or keyholding service, it may also include details about when and how the key will be returned at the end of the contracted period.
When both or all parties have agreed on the contract, they should sign and date it. All involved parties should have access to either a physical or digital copy of the contract at all times.
Below is an example chastity contract. Please feel free to use some or all of the example wording when drawing up a contract to suit your own enforced chastity needs!
And don’t get it complicated. What’s most important with male chastity is to get started.
Chastity Cage: Any lockable wearable device designed for continuous wear to prevent masturbation, infidelity, control sexual urges or aggression, or sexual intercourse.
Slave: The individual who will wear the device. By definition, the Slave has surrendered control of their sexual organs and services to the keyholder. /
Keyholder: The individual who will hold the key and the control for the device. By definition, the keyholder is the individual entrusted to have absolute say in the use of the Slaves sexual organs and services.
Slave will wear the chastity device for a period of time determined [by himself / by the pair together / by Keyholder / by (insert other method here)]
[Slave/Keyholder] is responsible for regular cleaning of device.
Slave will notify the Keyholder immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
Keyholder will permit at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning
Slave agrees that such release may be supervised and agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Keyholder, including restraints if deemed necessary.
Slave agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings.
Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no orgasms are permitted and Slave agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.
Keyholder will retain all keys to said device.
Keyholder will carry one key on their person at all times.
Slave will not attempt to break free from or defeat the purpose of the device in any way.
Keyholder will make one emergency key available to Slave for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to Slave.
Slave agrees that in such emergency he will notify Keyholder immediately and that no orgasm is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
Slave agrees that once medical condition has been rectified Slave will re-secure device immediately and notify Keyholder of said action.
Sexual Release / Orgasm
Keyholder agrees that Slave will be entitled to at least [number] releases in any [period of time]
Slave will spend no less than [number] hours but no more than [number] hours out of the device.
Keyholder is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out. Keyholder agrees that at least [number] uncaged periods will include an orgasm for Slave.
Slave acknowledges and agrees that Keyholder has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Keyholder do not constitute a release for Slave.
Slave agrees to satisfy Keyholder by whatever means Keyholder deems necessary for sexual gratification.
Slave agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Keyholder.
Slave agrees that Keyholder may release Slave for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted until Keyholder permits one.
Slave agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ons, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Keyholder.
Slave agrees that Keyholder may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on Slave.
Slave agrees that Keyholder may release Slave out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
Slave agrees to abide by all directions from Keyholder during such releases.
Slave agrees to re-secure device upon command from Keyholder.
Slave agrees that Keyholder may require certain clothing to be worn by Slave, including but not limited to feminine clothing such as heels, hosiery, and other items. In such cases Slave agrees to follow directives as set forth by Keyholder.
Slave agrees that Keyholder may specify that Slave remove all clothing within the confines of the [household/bedroom].
Keyholder agrees that they will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would cause public humiliation for Slave.
Slave acknowledges that Keyholder may adorn themselves in various clothing to tease and/or torment Slave.
Both parties agree that everyday life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this agreement, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this agreement.
Keyholder understands that they are free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from Slave during periods of confinement.
Slave is aware that rewards up to and including orgasm are given for good behavior including but not limited to [things Keyholder enjoys] [ex: pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages] Rewards assigned will be at the discretion of Keyholder.
Both parties agree that modifications to this agreement may be needed during the period of this agreement and that such modifications can be made as long as both parties are in agreement.
Penalties and Punishments
Both parties agree that deviation from contract will result in either cancellation of contract or punishments to correct errant behavior.
Breach of contract by Keyholder will constitute a cancellation of contract.
Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of Slave from device.
Breach of contract by Slave will be handled at the discretion of the Keyholder as outlined below.
Unauthorized removal of device will result in a [number] day period of lock up and denial for Slave. Absolutely no orgasms will be allowed for Slave during this penalty period.
Unauthorized masturbation will result in a [number] day period of lock up and denial for Slave. Again, absolutely no orgasms will be allowed for Slave during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Keyholder
Slave agrees that the following accepted punishments may be administered by Keyholder to correct or punish infractions from contract: [punishments agreed upon by couple] [ex: spanking, flogging, private humiliation, further extension of chastity period]
Slave and Keyholder agree that any sexual play carried out under the terms of the contract shall not include:
[hard limits of Slave]
[hard limits of Keyholder]
[Ex: scat, watersport, anal]
Upon signing of contract Slave is to immediately secure said device and hand over keys to Keyholder. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.